This is the title of a handy little book by former F.B.I agent and Private Investigator, Steven Kerry Brown. It is packed with true stories about the personal pitfalls that many women fall into along their romantic journey to find Mr. Right. Most importantly, Steve goes into detail on how to avoid these pitfalls without having to hire a Private Investigator. Here they are:
Is he married? If the man you are dating says he’s single or divorced, how do you know he’s being truthful with you? Wouldn’t you want to know? Do you really want to continue in a relationship that begins with a lie? Check it out! Steve shows you how.
Is he financially stable? Financial problems are the number one reason that marriages end in divorce. Wouldn’t you want to start off without the deck stacked against you? Wouldn’t you at least want to know if the man that seems so perfect is not in debt up to his eyeballs and is reasonably responsible with money? Steve will show you how to find out.
Does he have a criminal record? He seems so sweet. So considerate and polite. Surely he doesn’t have a criminal record. If you just got out of prison, wouldn’t you go out of your way to make a good impression? After all, you are starting a new life, right? The past is in the past. Look, we all make mistakes, especially when we are young. And people do change. But wouldn’t you want him to be honest with you about his history before committing to a serious relationship. What if he hasn’t reformed and you are just his next victim? Check him out. Steve will show you how.
Does he drink alcohol to excess? People love their alcohol! There’s nothing better than an intimate dinner with a bottle of wine or a few drinks after work with friends. But drinking to excess can cause major problems. If you get caught driving under the influence, in many states it could cost you $10,000 or more before it’s over. Do you want to marry a guy who loves alcohol more than he loves you? Can you trust a man who doesn’t have self-control? Steve will show you how to find out if your guy has a drinking problem.
Does he use drugs? Do not underestimate the damage that drug abuse can cause a relationship. Steve will show you how to find out early on if the guy you are seriously considering as a mate has a drug problem.
The book is available from Amazon in paperback and kindle versions. Also visit Steve’s website at www.fivethingswomenneedtoknow.com, or www.Facebook.com/FiveThingsWomenNeedtoKnow.
Answering these questions are important for your physical and emotional health. Either learn how to find the answers yourself or hire a Private Investigator to find them for you. It could save you thousands of dollars and years of pain. Good luck!